Comments:

Kat - 2005-12-09 09:17:35
This is Aubrey's first Christmas without her father, and right now everyone should be doing everything that they can to make it a nice one for her. I think the reason that the ex's sister resorted to emotional blackmail is because somewhere in her twisted little mind it's all about her. She lost her brother and she wants this all to be about her family and their loss. Perhaps even somewhere in their mind you are the evil ex wife and you are playing mind games with Aubrey and preventing her from seeing them, because they are sick people who would probably do that themselves. I wish I had some advice to give on how to deal with those people, the only thing I can say is that somehow they have to be made to understand that it's Aubrey's decision and that you wont stand for them tearing her apart like that just so they can get their own way. Perhaps telling them how much they are hurting her might help, I doubt it. But who knows. I hope that somewhere deep down in their souls they really don't want her crying herself to sleep.
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Sally - 2005-12-12 13:17:00
Um, ditto what Kat said. Just keep reassuring Aubrey that you are behind her 100%, no matter what she decides, because there is no right or wrong on her part. And keep telling the moron ex-sil that no one, NO ONE, is going to coerce/extort/cajole Aubrey into doing something she doesn't want to do. Listen to Aubrey's wishes, and then put the smack down on them when they get all manipulative. Go, girl, go!
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Sally again - 2005-12-12 13:19:30
And by "them" I mean the idiot ex-ils, me no writey coherently today, obviously...
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Moo - 2005-12-14 18:55:15
I love you I want them to be all kinds of hit hard i nthe head and I wish you the very very most wonderful christmas EVER!! xxxxxxxx
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